Hello Alistair it seems a while since I have. Been in contact. Lot has happened as I am sure you know. Your lovely sister Hilary is no longer with us. She passed away on June 11th after a long and painful illness.like you it shouldn't have happened. I feel she is with you and having a lovely time with her big brother whom she loved so much like we all do. We miss you both so much. Luv you always